Why do you wear that scarf?

IMG_20160321_152236So the usual for this morning before heading out was brushing my hair into a bun and wrapping my scarf around my head before heading out.

I was sure that there was going to be questions about it at the elementary school and I had my answer ready, but I was in no way prepared for the response I got that day….

we had just gone outside for play break, and were on the swings, we were putting together a hot dog ( three people on two swings interlocked by ourĀ legs) once we finished that, a couple of girls and I were chatting while swinging and there came THE question.

So what’s the reason you wear that on your head? Is it from your culture?

No Its because I didn’t feel like doing my hair this morning.

They all laughed, and one said she wish she could do that, then another asked: can we see it?

Sure, I said.

I slightly lifted my scarf to show the girls and one replied: OH THAT’S WHY YOU WEAR IT! That’s okay my momma doesn’t know how to braid either, she whispered.